that says more about you than me

projection!!

ever had anyone say anything to you which made you think....geez that says more about you than me.
Some significant others like to use these ways to make you feel small when they should actually be using the mirror and telling themselves. OUTRAGEOUS!!

I will recall a situational gag with the muffin man just as a source of my amusement to bring up unannounced into any argument to portray the flawed logic of a person who should be looking in a mirror whilst talking.

Before I do I will point out that if this has ever happened to you before it will bring about strange thought patterns such as....hmmm, nobody has ever mentioned this to me before in my life, ever. I wonder if it's because this person knows me so very well after having sex with me for a couple of months or whether it it because he had a bad day at work.....god forbid it shall be that he is talking about himself!! Be warned if this ever happens to you in early stages of a relationship......this caution speaks from beyond what is sane in any form of communication comes from but a gutteral beastie which arises from power issues....

how safe does this person feel around you with their feelings? If they don't feel secure then maybe they should put you in your place by telling you a little about themselves, by cleverly disguising it as your biggest deepest fear about YOU!!......it only works if it is your biggest fear.....but they don't know that because they are too busy being afraid of it themselves. :) enter ------> pretty enough, kasey chambers

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VzLuYZ9rz5M

It was when I had been accused of having a borderline personality disorder that I stopped and went.....Que?? Simply for the reason that I had watched Glenn Close in her eerie bunny boiling portrayal (Fatal Attraction) of this seriously scary personality. Now truth be known scary as it is to fess up here is that I have very often been accused of being aloof and non-responsive rather than clingy and stalky even to the point of being laughed at for a flippant comment I made when asked what my idea of true romance was.....my answer?? It was being able to get through a supermarket shopping expedition without having an argument (ever the pragmatist) A list of ex's will maybe own up to the fact that they were ever scared to buy me a flower in case I suspected that they were guilty of something or see them as silly for it rather than me enjoy a moment of whimsy watching the poor flower wilt in a vase together in romantic bliss.

Rather than dwell on the possibility that the muffin man may be Glenn Close in disguise using this theory I would much rather dwell on the power of self preservation and say LUCKY SUCCUBUS WOMAN :)....NB There are quite a few instances which I could elaborate on to build a convincing case but then again wouldn't that say more about me and to be honest just a little boring. enter ------> the outsider, a perfect circle

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nzyNWyZhUS0


Indeed I have heard that the muffin man has accused a friend of having aspbergers syndrome, all simply all of his ex's have a disorder according to him. One has bulemia, another antisocial, bipolar and yes!!! you guessed it, the original borderline personality who is strongly suspected (Only by him of course) of sending people to burn down his house a couple of hours after he had originally put out a smouldering fire caused by a candle. I am thinking since there are a few disorders there and again using the theory of projection that there is some serious couch time to work that one out.

The limpet man ahhhhhh whilst on a two week break from uni with two essays to do within two weeks I was told that I was addicted to the computer. He had taken the fortnight off work as a surprise to spend with me.....SURPRISE!!! To his credit I only found the evidence after the split of various vaginas and saved messages in hidden folders on my hard drive (which was attached to his computer) that he had a few projections of his own although he never really accused me of voyeurism.....maybe because he would have been right ;)

the lessons taken away from today is to know thyself
if you don't know yourself you will listen to any old shit that people will say about you out of their own fear.
If you listen to any old shit about yourself you may become that shit.
Take on board what people will say to you and question whether it says more about them than what it says about you.

Here is a quote from Angelheart.... a movie which speaks volumes about karma....if you believe in karma then more power to ya!!

No matter how cleverly you sneak up on a mirror, your reflection always looks you straight in the eye